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How to get girl to like you

Every girl in this world is different. Would you be interested in one girl if all were alike. There are many different ways to get a girl to like you. There are some basic rules which will help you to win over any girl who is worth getting.

Have a life

Girls never like a guy who is not having any lives and who hold them like plastic wrap. However there are some girls who like those kinds of guys but the chances are very less and they just want guys for some wrong reasons. Those kinds of girls might feel insecure and need attention of guys or they are submissive who like dominating guys. If you want to have friendly girls, and then focus on friendships, having some interests, non nerdy goals and hobbies.

Make an Impression

Impression makes a guy to be remembered. Always first impression is the best. You can have any number of impressions with girls but the first one remains forever. So be careful when creating your impression. Always remember, the impression you create for one girl might make another one to roll her eyes. Do not try hard to create an impression, be yourself; it will help you to make a proper impression. Demonstrate your unique skill/talent or something difficult to do and you are proud to do that. Identify something which makes you to stand apart from the huge crowd. Make sure the skill or talent must make her to feel good about you and it will help you to boost your confidence too.

A word of caution: never boost to much your achievements and plants. This will make the girl feel insecure when you are around.

Be a friend:

Guys tend to meet girls without knowing about them but, girls don’t do that. They tend to feel cozy with those people who they know. Girls just don’t fall for strangers. If they do then the relationship might not tend to move too far. It could end up in a speed date kind of scenario where she will be apart just before you know about her

When you see her, just smile at her. This will make her to notice you and make her to see u. Also make sure you are not doing this too often. This will just end up looking like you are obsessed with her. She will ignore you. When she walks by, just say a friendly Hi <name>. This way she will know you exist and will notice you. If she is shy, she might just smile back and walk away, so don’t think that she doesn’t like you. Girls never move into friendship very fast like guys. They take their time to understand the relationship before going out with you. Girls are always afraid that, if the relationship ends, they might lose friendship too, so they take time. To make the girl to like you, be a little flirter. Girls will be intimate with a man who she knows, trust and cares about. The closeness with girl will only be achieved with time and friendly chats.

Be a flirter

Flirting is an art, in which flirting with right tone, mind and body language is a special art. When you see a girl whom you like, make a brief eye contact and smile. Never stare at a girl. It will make them feel uncomfortable. Find a way to have a casual conversation. Understand how to start a conversation with a girl you just know. Relax yourself, don’t be with hurried mind. The more you chat with a girl, the more you will be relaxed. Never think her as the girl of your dreams. The moment you think her, as the girl of your dreams, your body language and conversation change. Girls are smart to identify this change and will become protective. Don’t worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke and other unwanted thoughts. She might feel nervous but small mistakes of yours are always likely to go unnoticed.

Enjoy interacting with the girl who just crossed your path. Live for the moment and be careful that you don’t get caught up on what you said and might regret later.

Talk to the girl

Always talk to your girl. Girls are chatter boxes who love talking. Tell her what you enjoy in life and what makes you feel exited and find out what makes her exited. Always be positive. Girls don’t like negative guys. Do not bring your bad mood to her, she will never like that. Always listen to her. Listen to whatever she talks, be it hobbies, she or anything. Always listen to her. All these talks might help you to move forward in the relationship you seek. The small little information which you ignored might be the most important information which nourishes your relationship later.

Show gestures to make her understand that you are listening to her. Girls like guys who show sincere interest in what they say, so talk to her and also listen to her.

Be Romantic

Being romantic is not just by having stereotypical romance. It can so to some extent but in these modern days it will never move further. So think about what makes your special some to get excited. Find out what makes her unique; find and do things which she would appreciate. Find out her secret interest, obsessions and fantasies. Pay attention to things which make her eyes bright. You can easily find those when she is shopping, watching movies, talking etc. Try to surprise her by bringing light in her eyes. Being romantic means acknowledging how special the person is and demonstrating that you know about her better than anyone in this world.

Break the touch barrier

Girls are sensitive to guy’s touch. Most of them feel uncomfortable with the touch of a guy whom they hardly know. But without breaking this barrier, you cannot enter into girl’s heart. There are several ways to touch her without being sleazy. Offer her your hand when she is walking /stepping on an uneven surface. Lend your hand so you can lead her through the crowd. If she is worried, then you can put your hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. There are lot of polite ways to get little closer to a girl. If you see any sign of discomfort, stop. Otherwise she will enjoy your affection and care.

Compliment her

Do you really like the girl you are flirting/ talking, and then you probably need to appreciate a lot about her. A compliment will bring a glow in her face and her heart will feel that you are watching her. You can just let her know on anything different or new hair style, dress, well grooming. The more unique the compliment is the more nearer you are in her heart. Girls like to receive compliments on something they do to make themselves distinct, noticeable and stand unique in gang of girls.

When complimenting a girl try to be original. Do not always compliment her eternal features, but compliment her for her skills and personality.

Make her laugh

Do you know what makes girls to think about you? Do you know how to crack a hard girl to see you? Make her laugh, that is the magical wand you have in you. Use it properly to make her feel happy. Tell her jokes or funny stories in your own way. Bring facial expressions to the story which makes a fun filled environment. Girls like to be in a fun filled environment not on a moody environment. If you bring to a fun filled environment, you are their man for that time. Watch her favorite movies, comedies with her. Find some antics which make her laugh. If both are relaxed and enjoying, then laugh will join and make your time with a fun filled time.

Look Good

Want to make your girl to like you! You better be look good. Girls like guys who are muscular (not overdose) and fit. Girls like guys who maintain their fitness. Girls do not like guys with too much of muscles.

Give her high Value

Women always want to feel important and valued. They don’t like guys who does not give importance and the value they worth. Never use some low valued email note to ask her for her personal information or a date. It is best to ask her in person. Most times, when you ask her using email the chances of rejection are more. Ask a date with a bunch of flowers in your hand, the chances of going out is more.

Ask her out

Finally, you are going to hit the ball. Invite her to come out with you. Make sure you both are interested in that place. Take her to the place where you both will be comfortable, place where you are so proud of. You can take her to your place but, make sure she is comfortable with that idea. Introduce your friends. Girls like to meet your friends too. Plan a Get together with your friends and may be her friends too. Make sure you both enjoy the time.

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